Old Paradigm and Women of male power

I leave the group. So many about politics. And if it’s about politics, be critical and don’t just follow the mainstream media that brings a lot of fake news. The fake news that suits the so called elite. The group of elite that doesn’t give a damn about lives of people and the health of children. Some things on this page I really liked, but last weeks I don’t become glad from the things that are shared. Wish you all the best and lots of luck, happiness and wisdom.

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Emma Clare Juniper
Emma Clare Juniper Joke Vlijm yes you are right there are some political posts – I am an admin and we are changing that. The group is for sacred sisterhood and authentic connection
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Callie J Tuschen
Callie J Tuschen Thank you for being an admin and taking this into consideration. I have also been wondering if this was the right space for me. I choose not to engage in the fake media sensational politics and it is very hard to see it everywhere. Especially here wherSee more
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Alexia Christodoulou
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Emma Clare Juniper
Emma Clare Juniper Joke Vlijm I am actually considering that we have a policy that either says no political links or no external links, we are doing our best to figure out guidelines that create a sanctuary space for women to connect.
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Joke Vlijm
Joke Vlijm Thank you, that sounds good.
Emma Clare Juniper
Emma Clare Juniper Joke Vlijm the part that intrigues me right now is I do want women to be able to share what they are feeling, learning, growing, insights, and inquiries about things that are happening in the world. Maybe it’s best to do that without posting any of the original content.
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Ana Isabella
Ana Isabella Joke Vlijm Be the Change ❤️❣️
Jeanne Johnson
Jeanne Johnson I think this is the way to go.. Well said 😍👭
Alexia Christodoulou

Alexia Christodoulou

“Politics” (πολιτικά)
is the Hellenic word from
“politis” (πολίτης), citizen
from “polis” (πόλις), city
which means literally
“about citizen~ship”.

So, that is not an excuse.

Especially, not one to use as an “accusation”
and “reason” for departing.

I disdain to comment further, as this kind of post
is only
a derailing tactic using a really badly “acted” … drama.

Ale3ia

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Tammera Short
Tammera Short The biggest struggle I’ve seen in political posts is I’m not sure many women recognize the voice from which they speak. It is very easy for any of us to be susceptible to what our family, friends, acquaintances and other people in our community have influenced us to accept or believe. I’m hoping there can be so much more dialogue about “what is your authentic voice” in these matters we are facing head on in politics, social issues, and civil issues. Do you speak your true feeligs or simply the rhetoric that you’ve been unconsciously conditioned to repeat to others?
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Kaydie Nielsen
Kaydie Nielsen Truth- we (meaning all people, male and female) often get so caught up in being right and reflecting what we think is the correct view that we fail to question the beliefs of a group that we have chosen to represent. We bend facts to support our beliefs, rather than adjusting our beliefs in the face of new facts.
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Tammera Short
Tammera Short It can be extremely stifling, especially when we say we hope to build bridges of communication with ourselves and others. That has been so upsetting when I see that take place in this group. The keyword in this group’s title is “Unify”. I think the proSee more
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Julie Louise
Julie Louise Yes. That’s it. As women we need to work out better ways of communicating and catering for each other in peace and respect. Can we do this or are we too entrenched in it?
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Kaydie Nielsen
Kaydie Nielsen Tammera Short you make a great point- our communication should never be about winning, as what do we win when we drive others away? We don’t further understanding through insult. I say this from experience as I have most assuredly been guilty of taking a sarcastic or condescending tone when something someone say attacks a core belief of mine- but I always wish, in retrospect that I had taken a better approach and perhaps helped that person to see my view- just a little bit, and to see what makes them carry the view that they have.
Alexia Christodoulou

Alexia Christodoulou … : *) …

Excellent truth~full voicing !

Speaking OUR Alethia

{alethia [Hellenic ἀλήθεια > ‘α’ στερητικό + λῆθη]
> deprivative ‘a’ + oblivion
> that which cannot be forgotten = Truth}

is THE vital struggle to REMEMBER
OUR Divine Energy of FemaleNess … !!! …

Thank You for sharing Tammera Short !…

Grateful & Great~Full

Ale3ia

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Tammera Short
Tammera Short I deeply believe it is possible. It takes having someone present new ways to better express your voice. I am so grateful for the things I’ve learned in pursuing my psychology degree that focus on regulatory behaviors and positive psychology because it See more
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Alexia Christodoulou

Alexia Christodoulou

Only have in mind that Froyd is not the “father” of
psychology, but he IS probably the no.1 misogynistic
male in history.

There is a four part documentary
by Adam Curtis
called “The Century of the Self”
which I BElive You will find quite interesting.

The following, is part 1 : “Happiness Machines”

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http://www.dailymotion.com/…/x4p30p3_the-century-of-the…

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Donna Souza Wilcox
Donna Souza Wilcox I think I understand where Alexia Christodoulou is coming from. The original post was a bit judge too. It suggests we are forming our political opinions based on what she considers fake news. Kind of insulting in its own way I thought.
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Kaydie Nielsen
Kaydie Nielsen My feeling is that we are better served to verify the intent and talk through it than to add more judgement and bickering. There is also the option of acknowledging and moving on without comment, if we don’t have an interest in bringing a positive resolution. Pot stirring and finger pointing is so seldom a part of positive discourse.
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Alexia Christodoulou
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Donna Souza Wilcox
Donna Souza Wilcox My feeling is she posted it and we are free to comment on it. Why else are we here. Again a suggestion that we be silent. Smh. Sorry I don’t get that. Anyway I am cooking up some food and going to watch the super bowl. Have a nice evening ladies.
Alexia Christodoulou

Alexia Christodoulou

Thank You, Donna Souza Wilcox,
for “thinking You understood where I Am coming from”
instead of jungementally suggesting anything.

And please,

Do enJOY Your cooking and the Super Bowl !…

^_^

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Lorraine Bee
Lorraine Bee I am happy to read any posts here that resonate with me. Politics are part of our lives, no matter how spiritually focussed we are. It is good to hear other points of view. If I am not interested in a post I don’t read it. Easy.
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Alexia Christodoulou

Alexia Christodoulou

Thank You!

Exactly !

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Cassandra Leinohea Pai
Cassandra Leinohea Pai When someone announces they are going to do something it’s because they seek approval. I’m sorry you have to seek approval from the people you wish to leave. Good luck to you.
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Joke Vlijm
Joke Vlijm How do you come to think it’s for seeking approval. I think it probably would be the case when you did a thing like that. But I think you have to learn that not everyone is like you and everyone has his or her own things behind things.
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Tammera Short
Tammera Short We cannot know Elena’s reasons for wanting to leave the group, until she vocalizes them. Let’s not judge her. That’s not at all fair to her or ANY of us for someone to assume they know our motives or reasoning for being here or leaving.
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Kaydie Nielsen
Kaydie Nielsen Perhaps her reason for bringing this to the forefront is to say that she liked the idea of this sisterhood but we are being all we could be to live up to our name and out goal of being a unified and unifying group. I have often heard that we see the wSee more
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Alexia Christodoulou

Alexia Christodoulou

One does not need to announce their leaving a “party”,
a gathering, festivities …
and their “reason for leaving”, unless
one seeks a kind of … “attention”.

This is already …

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Tammera Short
Tammera Short But even if her statement were made to seek approval or attention I don’t think we should admonish her or any member for that. Perhaps, there is more she wants to make clear and she wasn’t sure how to breach the topic. Everyone’s capabilities in communSee more
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Emma Clare Juniper
Emma Clare Juniper Alexia Christodoulou dear your comment feels judgmental to me, are you feeling judgmental of your sisters here?
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Kaydie Nielsen
Kaydie Nielsen this is neither a party nor a gathering, though is it? It is a Global sisterhood that has asked us to each bring the best of ourselves to be a support and sounding board for others. In that case, when a MEMBER feels like they are not able to bring thSee more
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Alexia Christodoulou

Alexia Christodoulou

The “shunning” is made towards this group
by the persons that instead of simply leaving
as they would do in ANY other “physical” situation,
decided to make their “leaving” an issue that
everyone in here should feel “bad” about.

I Am making the point that “this behaviour”
is in fact … passive aggresive bullying.

You do not like something, say it at the posts You “see” it.

If You want to leave, leave and say “thank You,
this is as far as I go” to YourSelf.

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Tammera Short
Tammera Short Alexia Christodoulou What if that woman has not been down road you have to self-awareness, or self-actualization and self love enough to eloquently walk away? There are many sisters here that do not have that inner strength, and thus that is why they aSee more
Emma Clare Juniper
Emma Clare Juniper Alexia Christodoulou as admins we will review whether we think a woman posting her reasons for leaving is passive bullying – thank you for your perspective. I would prefer to understand the reasons women might leave as supportive feedback. I would like to encourage you to share your perspectives without including judgment or shaming of other women’s choices and actions.
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Emma Clare Juniper
Emma Clare Juniper Alexia Christodoulou I am curious your intentions and where you’re coming from as I do feel you are saying women are wrong or bad for doing something – perhaps I am misperceiving and you don’t feel judgmental towards them, I always like to check rather than assume.
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Kaydie Nielsen
Kaydie Nielsen Alexia Christodoulou to be honest, I did as well, but clearly I misunderstood your meaning. The “much ado about nothing” artwork certainly seemed to imply that this group member is not entitled to her feelings or is making an unnecessary fuss. What else could that statement imply but an invalidation of her concerns?
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Kim Prangley
Kim Prangley The word “feedback” is what came immediately to mind for me and what’s wrong with that?
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Kaydie Nielsen
Kaydie Nielsen I too thought of that. We need to know if we re not meeting the needs and expectations of those who have joined us in this worldwide group. When I teach customer service, in my work, I remind our service providers that feedback is a positive even wheSee more
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Charlotta Rodéhn
Charlotta Rodéhn Theresa is something very strange going on here. Something is trying to split the group. Would we like to follow that energy?
Kaydie Nielsen

Kaydie Nielsen Alexia Christodoulou Meaning of much ado about nothing:

A great deal of fuss over nothing of importance.See more

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Kaydie Nielsen
Kaydie Nielsen So, if you please how does this relate? I’m still confused.
Kaydie Nielsen
Kaydie Nielsen Alexia Christodoulou You see, this is precisely the type of passive aggression that I find distasteful. I am well aware that I am allowed to be as I am – my question was how your comment applies to the situation. However, let me withdraw it here. It is of no further interest to me. Have a lovely day.
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Kaydie Nielsen
Kaydie Nielsen ahh tit for tat- very good. I see. This is a game I do not play- you have the field to yourself. enjoy

 

Sarah Asa
Sarah Asa Kaydie Nielsen I’m picking up on the passive aggression as well…I sometimes think of Facebook the same as road rage – people feel empowered to be assholes in the comfort of their car, however their attitude/reactions would be totally different if youSee more
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Sarah Asa
Sarah Asa Alexia Christodoulou I think she left already…
Kaydie Nielsen
Kaydie Nielsen Sarah Asa – having some fb tools at my disposal I just made the choice to block what I perceive as negativity. I’m sure that Alexia has valid points to share, but clearly not with or for me. I can afford to miss out on any future positive information that she may present to avoid what felt was far too much negative discourse for me today.
Sarah Asa
Sarah Asa Kaydie Nielsen I agree, that was all a little too much…
What FB tools are you using?
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Kaydie Nielsen
Kaydie Nielsen Sarah Asa lol- the block function. I just blocked her so I don’t see her comments and she doesn’t see me or mine.
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Kaydie Nielsen
Kaydie Nielsen It’s much better than leaving a group that I truly believe in and enjoy. My preference is to come to a meeting of minds- some form of enlightened understanding- but that is not always possible. When that happens block is useful.
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Emma Clare Juniper
Emma Clare Juniper Thank you for sharing Kaydie Nielsen!
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Kaydie Nielsen
Kaydie Nielsen Emma Clare Juniper of course, I’ve only chosen this option once, but it proved very helpful on a day when I find myself having a bit less patience than I’d like.
Sarah Asa
Sarah Asa Kaydie Nielsen ah, I didn’t know you could do that. Perfect
Kaydie Nielsen

Kaydie Nielsen just click the dots and select block 😉

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Emma Clare Juniper
Emma Clare Juniper Alexia Christodoulou dear, there is no age-limit at this time to join the sisterhood
Emma Clare Juniper
Emma Clare Juniper Clarity is magnetic and a uniting force 🙂
Ann Nickerson
Ann Nickerson Alexia Christodoulou Even if it was attention would that have been so bad. I don’t think we should judge another persons motives for we do not walk in her shoes. Taking another persons inventory is not a good thing.
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Ann Nickerson
Ann Nickerson Judgement is not suppose to be what the group is about, I believe.
Ann Nickerson
Ann Nickersonsend love out into the universe no judgment. We all come from so many different situations. You have no idea what some people are facing in their lives. People do not share everything on this site. Some of us are more sensitive than others. Understanding and a lack of judgement would be good.
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Joke Vlijm
Joke Vlijm It’s just that I think that maybe I don’t belong here. Being a woman never has been an issue for me. I feel freedom in that. I live in the Netherlands. A lot of women have good jobs, they are paid equally as men. So fighting for women rights is not my subject. I always felt I had all rights. Only about ten years ago I met a man from another culture who wanted me to obey him. That only brought fierce quarrels, very fierce. I thought I could change him and felt pitty for what he had experienced in life and how his life was going. When I noticed he didn’t want to change or could not change I stopped the relationship with pain in my heart because I loved him. I never felt victim because that is not my background. Futhermore I have the idea that here a lot of people are fierce against DT. I am not. I just don’t know. He said some good things too and I saw some speeches in which I admired him. Maybe you don’t see these films in the mainstream. Maybe it’s easy for me to think like that because I don’t live in America and don’t see and feel the consequences. In the Netherlands almost everyone is against DT. So when I say I’m not, people get emotional and don’t understand me. Seeing these things here brought to me the things I said yesterday. Seeing his face everywhere and always the same discussions and feeling the same disgust brought me there. So I wonder: am I of use in this group and is this group useful for me. In an impulse I wrote what I wrote yesterday. Mostly I am the person to disappear silently.
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